I'm not a lesbian but I've always been fascinated by double ended play. My husband loves porn involving two women going at it, and he's always gotten hot over a woman using a strap-on on her partner. So when the Double Sided Jelly Pleaser came from BetterSex I was more than ready for it! I'm happy to say it's an Adam & Eve product, while my husband doesn't enjoy their line as much as I do we own quite a few of their toys! It's also a very nonthreatening mixture of light & dark pink colors. The probe end is fairly floppy while the phallus shaped end is firm and heavy. The Jel-Lee texture is smooth which makes anal insertion comfortable and easy. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to find out if this dildo is phthlates free so I seriously stress wearing a condom when you use this toy.